In James 4:2b-3 James goes on to answer the question of why we fight and quarrel and murder. He delivers the punch line: “You do not have, because you do not ask.” James tells us that we won’t have if we chase things with the wrong motivation. This is the tragic irony of the life lived after worldly and fleshly desires; it never reaches the goal it gives everything for. This fundamental dissatisfaction is not because of a lack of effort. This helps us to rationally understand the stupidity of living life after the lusts of the world and our personal appetites. You are tempted to fulfill a sinful desire because you think (or hope) that it may be satisfying, but that will never be the case. Why not accept your lack of satisfaction now, instead of after much painful and harmful sin?
The reason these destructive desires exist among Christians is because we do not seek God for our needs (you do not ask). James reminds us here of the great power of prayer, and why one may live unnecessarily as a spiritual pauper, simply because we do not pray, or do not ask when we pray. Spurgeon writes of the absolute power and need of prayer. “If you may have everything by asking, and nothing without asking, I beg you to see how absolutely vital prayer is, and I beseech you to abound in it… Do you know, brothers, what great things are to be had for the asking? Have you ever thought of it? Does it not stimulate you to pray fervently? All heaven lies before the grasp of the asking man; all the promises of God are rich and inexhaustible, and their fulfillment is to be had by prayer.”
After dealing with the problem of no prayer, now James addressed the problem of selfish prayer. These ones, when they did ask, they asked God with purely selfish motives. “You ask and do not receive, because you ask wrongly, to spend it on your passions.” We must remember that the purpose of prayer is not to persuade a reluctant God to do what we want. The purpose of prayer is to align our will with His, and in partnership with Him, to ask Him to accomplish His will on this earth. Spurgeon writes “When a man so prays he asks God to be his servant, and gratify his desires; nay, worse than that, he wants God to join him in the service of his lusts. He will gratify his lusts, and God shall come and help him to do it. Such prayer is blasphemous, but a large quantity of it is offered, and it must be one of the most God-provoking things that heaven ever beholds.”
Spend is the same verb used to describe the wasteful spending of the Prodigal Son in Luke 15:14. Destructive desires persist, even if we pray, because our prayers may be self-centered and self-indulgent. Our human nature causes us to struggle with these two areas in regard to prayer:
- We never ask because we can handle things on our own.
- We ask for our own selfish reasons rather than to get aligned with God
There is power in prayer. Scripture is full of promises and examples throughout that show us the power of bringing things to God through prayer. But we have to ask, and we have to do it with the right motivation. If we do that, the things that divide us and cause us to fight and quarrel and even murder will be replaced with a heart aligned with the Father!
“Portions of this blog post have been taken from the Enduring Word commentary, (c) 2023 The Enduring Word Bible Commentary by David Guzik – ewm@enduringword.com“
“Scripture (bold and italicized) has been taken from the English Standard Version, © ESV.org – www.esv.org”