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Ephesians 6

Ephesians 6 begins with instruction to a number of different groups of people.  As a parent, I always loved verse one: “Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right”.  Somehow my kids weren’t nearly as fond of it when we had them memorize it.  Because of the sin nature of all mankind, we have to teach our kids obedience as it doesn’t come naturally.  It’s hard to do, and requires that parents do their job leading ‘in the Lord’ – not just their own desires and whims.  The next verse sets that foundation: “Honor your father and mother….that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land”.  Part of parenting in the Lord is to treat our own parents with honor.  That principle and requirement never ends.  We can’t expect obedience from our kids without honor for our own parents.

Paul continues the topic of parenting when he addresses fathers.  “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord”.  Obedience is required of children, but good parenting is required of fathers.  They must be careful not to have an unkind, over-critical attitude that torments the child instead of training them.  When you are disciplining a child, you must first control yourself and your emotions and not discipline out of anger or frustration. How can you tell your child that he needs discipline when you obviously need it yourself?

Paul then shifts to slaves and masters, which is sometimes applied to the workplace in today’s world. He first addresses the ‘slaves’ or workers.  “Slaves, obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling, with a sincere heart, as you would Christ, not by the way of eye-service, as people-pleasers, but as servants of Christ, doing the will of God from the heart, rendering service with a good will as to the Lord and not to man, knowing that whatever good anyone does, this he will receive back from the Lord, whether he is a slave or free”.  God cares how we do our jobs.  Our heart shows our motive and why we do what we do.  Spurgeon wrote “Grace makes us the servants of God while still we are the servants of men: it enables us to do the business of heaven while we are attending to the business of earth: it sanctifies the common duties of life by showing us how to perform them in the light of heaven.”  How we act in the workplace reflects on our walk as a Christ Follower.

But Paul also addresses the bosses.  “Masters, do the same to them, and stop your threatening, knowing that he who is both their Master and yours is in heaven, and that there is no partiality with him”.  How bosses treat their employees is also important.  As Paul admonishes workers to work hard and honestly for their masters, he also tells these bosses to do the same.  God watches the heart of all people.  Being a master does not give anyone a pass on how they are to live.  In fact, the standards are higher for those in authority.

Paul ends the letter to the church after sharing the truth of our place in God’s Kingdom through Christ, and the basics of our walk as Christ Followers.  Now he turns the focus on a key area we must pay attention to when he says ‘finally’. “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against  the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places”.  We’re in a battle and Paul warns us to get ready for spiritual warfare.  This enemy is far different than any other we may have faced.  We need to consider ourselves as being in basic training preparing for the battle of our life.  God will equip us with the weapons and armor we need, but we have to put it on and learn how to use it to fight.

Paul gives us a detailed description of what it will take to ‘stand firm’ which is our charge as a soldier for the Lord.  “Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of  the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication”.  We can only ‘stand’ when we are equipped and properly dressed with God’s armor:

  • Belt of truth – tying together all of God’s truth
  • Breastplate of righteousness – not our own righteousness, but that of Christ that becomes ours through faith
  • Shoes for your feet – living in constant readiness and flexibility
  • Shield of faith – faith that will deflect the enemies attacks of thoughts, feelings, imagination, fears and lies
  • Helmet of salvation – knowing that our salvation is secure and we need not be discouraged
  • Sword of the Spirit – God’s truth which is our offensive weapon in this battle – which means we must know it
  • Praying at all times – prayer must underlie all our efforts in battle

God has equipped us with all we need to be victorious.  But we must put on the armor, learn to use it, and then undergird our efforts with prayer.  This battle is not something we can win alone.  We need to be part of the Lord’s army of Christ Followers who stand together to face the enemy of darkness!

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Ephesians 5

Ephesians 5 is a powerful chapter where Paul addresses some important topics for each of us.  He begins by giving us an overall principle:

Walk as children of light….try to discern what is pleasing to the Lord….Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil”.  Life can’t just be lived on autopilot.  We have to focus on how we live. Life shouldn’t just happen to us.  We need to be intentional in how we happen to life.  We need to inspect how we use our time and be sure we are maximizing it because time is limited and short.  It isn’t just about getting through life, it’s about walking with God through life!

Paul shows us what it looks like to live a Spirit filled life.  “Be filled with the Spirit, addressing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody to the Lord with your heart, giving thanks always and for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ.  He gives us four key ways we can let the Spirit guide us:

  • Interacting with each other with joy
  • Worshipping God with all our heart
  • Living a life of gratitude for all things
  • Submitting to each other in reverence of Christ

Being Spirit filled doesn’t happen by living alone.  It happens as we live with others, and walk closely with God.

Paul goes on to end the chapter tackling one of the toughest areas where living in the Spirit comes to life – our marriages.  He has strong words for both husband and wife.  “Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord….wives should submit  in everything to their husbands”. He begins with wives and uses that ‘s’ word that has such a negative connotation today.  But it isn’t a bad word at all, and if understood, is really about freeing a wife from the responsibilities that are passed to her husband when she submits.  Being submissive does not make one a doormat to be trampled and taken advantage of.  It does mean putting one under the authority of another, but with that passes accountability and responsibility to the authority.

To men, Paul writes “Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her….love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself”.  Husbands are told to do something differently – to love their wife as Christ loved the church.  What did that look like?  Jesus went to the cross and died for the church.  That’s the kind of love God calls husbands to have – a love that means dying to self and putting another above our own desires and needs.  It’s all encompassing love.  It’s agape love.  It is complete and absolute love.  That’s what wives are to get from their husband.

Paul summarizes what each is to do this way: “Let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband”.  We can boil it down to two words:

  • Men – we are to LOVE
  • Women – you are to RESPECT

Love and respect – the two traits that define what a godly marriage looks like.  The world tells us that these two things are not the secret.  It is all about getting what we want and ‘feeling’ good about our relationship.  It’s about putting in 50% but no more, and if your spouse doesn’t put in their 50% it is time to move on.  But the problem with that approach is that things will be no different in the next relationship.  God calls each of us to put in 100%, because at times, there will be need for you to carry the relationship.  You will need to lead.  We have to be active and focused on intentionally loving and respecting our wife or husband.  That’s God’s plan for success in marriage.  Are you living that way?

Ephesians 4

Ephesians 4 has Paul exhorting us as Christ Followers on how we should live.  “I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with  patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace”.  Being saved is not a ticket to living any which way we want to.  With salvation and the relationship we have through grace with the Savior, there is another part of that relationship where Jesus is Lord of our life.  We need to live our life in a way that honors Him and is worthy of the calling we have as believers.

A big part of that calling is to recognize and live out the oneness of God’s plan for the world.  “There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to the one hope that belongs to your call—one Lord, one faith, one baptism, one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all”.  Did you notice how many times Paul uses the word ‘one’ in his description of God’s plan?  I count seven references in these short verses.  We are part of God’s unified plan for the world.  We don’t live merely as individuals, but part of His creation under His plan and the authority structure He has created.  We cannot live in division, but must live in unity.

Paul makes it clear that in God’s plan, there are folks who are charged with helping us grow up in our faith, and also live together in unity.  “He gave the  apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the shepherds and teachers, to equip the saints for the work of ministry, for building up the body of Christ, until we all attain to the unity of the faith and of the knowledge of the Son of God, to mature manhood, to the measure of the stature of  the fullness of Christ, so that we may no longer be children, tossed to and fro by the waves and carried about by every wind of doctrine, by human cunning, by craftiness in deceitful schemes”.  Read that again.  God’s plan is for leaders of the faith to equip those of us in the pews to do the work of the ministry.  We think we pay preachers and church staff to do the work but that is not God’s plan.  Their job is to equip us to go minister to those in our patch, not sit in the pews and feel good about going to church each week.  We get that all wrong.

Another part of that plan is to grow us up in the faith.  We have to come to understand “the truth is in Jesus”.  It’s not about us – living a successful life as a Christ Follower isn’t about how hard I try but how much I follow Jesus.  And it involves change as we must “put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness”.  That means we had better be uncomfortable when we sit in church on Sunday morning.  If not, we’re not being challenged in the right way.  Walking with Jesus isn’t about us doing what makes us comfortable.  It has to be awkward and push us to be different as we grow and mature and become more like Him.  It is a transformation of who we were to who we need to become.

Here’s what that outcome looks like according to Paul.  “Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give  grace to those who hear…..Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you”.  If that’s the standard, I’ve got some work to do.  Not that I never act that way, but I don’t consistently act that way to all people all the time.  That’s when Jesus has control – when every action lines up with Him as not only Savior in our life, but also as Lord!

Ephesians 3

Ephesians 3 has Paul telling us about his call to be a minister of the gospel of Christ.  He was under house arrest because of his missionary efforts to bring the truth to the Gentiles, which wasn’t at all popular with the religious leaders of the day.  Paul was tasked with unveiling a mystery: “This mystery is that the Gentiles are fellow heirs, members of the same body, and partakers of the promise in Christ Jesus through the gospel”.  All Christ Followers are one – believing Jews and believing Gentiles are joined together into one body of Christ, into one Church, and no longer separated before God.  This is very new thinking in Paul’s day, and one met with much resistance.

But Paul sees it as an honor to unveil God’s plan to the masses.  “To me, though I am the very least of all the saints, this grace was given, to preach to the Gentiles the unsearchable riches of Christ, and to bring to light for everyone what is the plan of the mystery hidden for ages in God who created all things, so that through the church the manifold wisdom of God might now be made known to the rulers and authorities  in the heavenly places”.  Christ’s death on the cross revealed God’s finished work of grace for all people, and Paul’s mission is to tell the world!

It wasn’t something that was without resistance and Paul encourages the church to stay the course.  “I ask you not to lose heart over what I am suffering for you, which is your glory….that according to the riches of his glory he may grant you to be strengthened with power through his Spirit in your inner being”.  Paul was under arrest because of this message, but during that time he was used by God to write the letters of Ephesians, Colossians, Philippians, and Philemon.  Even though times can be difficult, the Holy Spirit dwells in us and will strengthen us in His power.

Why does Paul challenge us to not lose heart?  Here is his answer: “so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith—that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may have strength to comprehend with all the saints what is the breadth and length and height and depth, and to know the love of Christ that surpasses knowledge, that you may be filled with all the fullness of God”.  Spurgeon writes “Two expressions are used: ‘rooted,’ like a living tree which lays hold upon the soil, twists itself round the rocks, and cannot be upturned: ‘grounded,’ like a building which has been settled, as a whole, and will never show any cracks or flaws in the future through failures in the foundation.”

The cross pointed in four ways, essentially in every direction, because . . .

  • God’s love is wide enough to include every person.
  • God’s love is long enough to last through all eternity.
  • God’s love is deep enough to reach the worst sinner.
  • God’s love is high enough to take us to heaven.

Paul wants us to lean deeply into the everlasting and unmeasurable love of Christ.  In that love we are filled with the fullness of God.  Clarke writes “Among all the great sayings in this prayer, this is the greatest. To be filled with God is a great thing; to be filled with the fullness of God is still greater; but to be filled with all the fullness of God utterly bewilders the sense and confounds the understanding.”  That’s what God offers us through our relationship with Christ.  Do you have that?

Ephesians 2

Ephesians 2 is a  power chapter where Paul breaks down the reality of life with and without Christ. His statements are long with a lot of words and pacted with truth, but they give us a true picture of how things truly are. “And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience—among whom we all once lived in the passions of our flesh, carrying out the desires of the body and the mind, and were by nature children of wrath, like the rest of mankind”.  Based on our own efforts, we are toast.  We are sinners following an enemy in a life of disobedience without a future or a hope.

But God offered us a different option.  Not because He had to, but because He loves us.  “But God, being  rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ—by grace you have been saved—and raised us up with him and seated us with him in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, so that in the coming ages he might show the immeasurable riches of his grace in kindness toward us in Christ Jesus”.  How does God love us?  With His mercy (not giving us what we deserve) and His grace (giving us what we don’t deserve).  That’s His love in a nutshell.

Then Paul shares the simplest reality of salvation in all of scripture.  “For by grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast”.  God’s offer of salvation is freely given and can only be received through accepting it as the gift through which it was offered – a faith relationship through Jesus Christ.  There is nothing we can do to earn or achieve salvation on our own – no matter how hard we try.  Salvation does not result from how hard we work or what we do.  It comes only through faith and personally receiving Christ as God’s gift of grace to cover the penalty of our sin.

Does that mean we can just receive Christ through faith and then sit around until we die?  Not hardly.  “For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them”.  Doing things don’t save us, but are certainly a result of being saved.  When we receive Christ, our heart becomes focused on serving God and others – fulfilling the Great Commandments that Jesus taught – and we are motivated to serve others.  We transition from being “separated from Christ, alienated from the commonwealth of Israel and strangers to the covenants of promise, having no hope and without God in the world” to a place where everything changes when we are saved.  “But now in Christ Jesus you who once were far off have been brought near by the blood of Christ”.

 Paul shares the reality of life with Jesus.  “For he himself is our peace, who has made us both one and has broken down in his flesh the dividing wall of hostility by abolishing the law of commandments expressed in ordinances, that he might create in himself one new man in place of the two, so making peace, and might reconcile us both to God in one body through the cross, thereby killing the hostility….For  through him we both have access in one Spirit to the Father. So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and  members of the household of God….In him you also are being built together into a dwelling place for God by the Spirit”.  When we receive Jesus He tears down the walls that keep us from God because of our sin, and builds in us a dwelling place for the Holy Spirit.  But it only happens when we make the step of receiving Christ as Savior and Lord.  We have to make God’s gift of grace and mercy our own.  Until then, we live lost and apart from God’s glorious plan for our life!

Ephesians 1

Ephesians 1 has Paul writing to the church at Ephesus which was filled with people “faithful in Christ Jesus”.  Paul spends the chapter encouraging them in the faith they have in Christ “who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing….even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him”.  This is important to understand – believers are chosen by God, and they are chosen before they have done anything or have been anything for God.  God draws us to Himself for the purpose of not only saving us, but also for holiness.  God doesn’t just want us saved, He also wants us to walk with Christ in obedience that leads us to righteousness.

Paul makes it clear that God chooses us to become part of His family, into a place that we can not lose.  Once we become a child of God, we’ll always be a child.  We may strain the relationship based on how we live, but it doesn’t change the reality of God making us part of His family through Christ. “In love he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved”.  This plan is God’s doing, not ours.  This plan gives glory to God’s grace.  It’s all His idea and His plan.  We merely are drawn to Him with the opportunity to receive His free gift of grace which will make us a son and provide eternal life.

Paul tells us the power of receiving Christ and becoming a son of the Father in three long verses about what happens when we receive God’s offer of grace:

  • In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace, which he lavished upon us, in all wisdom and insight making known to us the mystery of his will, according to his purpose, which he set forth in Christ as a plan for the fullness of time, to unite all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth
  • In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things according to  the counsel of his will, so that we who were the first to hope in Christ might be to the praise of his glory
  • In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation, and believed in him, were sealed with the promised Holy Spirit,who is  the guarantee of our inheritance until we acquire possession of it, to the praise of his glory

These three long statements tell us what happens ‘in him’ – the result of our acceptance of Jesus as not only Savior, but also Lord.  God has an amazing set of benefits that He bestows on His children when they become part of His family.  But not one little thing is the result of our efforts.  They are all gifts from the Father when we come to receive His gift of grace through Christ.

Paul goes on to tell the church how he prays for them.  The list is long, but if you want to know how to pray for someone, check out Paul’s prayer:  “that the God of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of glory, may give you a spirit of wisdom and of revelation in the knowledge of him, having the eyes of your hearts enlightened, that you may know what is the hope to which he has called you, what are the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints, and what is the immeasurable greatness of his power toward us who believe, according to the working of his great might that he worked in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly places, far above all rule and authority and power and dominion, and above every name that is named, not only in this age but also in the one to come”.  Paul’s prayer focuses on these things as he lifts up the faithful in the church:

  • A spirit of wisdom
  • Knowledge of Christ
  • Eyes that are enlightened
  • Understanding of hope
  • Riches of glory
  • Inheritance of the saints
  • Immeasurable power
  • Unlimited authority
  • Eternal relationship

Paul speaks a lot of words here, but the focus isn’t what our prayers often are, where we cry out to God to fix our problems and give us what we want.  Paul’s prayer focuses on Christ and the relationship we have with Him and through Him.  Prayer isn’t about us.  It’s about lining up our heart and our will with the Father.  That’s what Paul is focused on in the words he writes here.

Ephesians 6

Ephesians 6 begins with some more direction on how God designed the family.  He tells young ones “children, obey your parents in the Lord for this is right….honor your father and mother…..that it will go well with you”.  Kids are to live obediently with their parents.  Not just sometimes – but obedience means all the time.  So how does that work?  It starts when we model obedience to the Father and make that clear to our kids.  We often get exactly what we give God – partial obedience.  I remember my kids going through the phase of watching the speedometer and asking me how come I was speeding.  Of course I explained it away – the speed limit is guidance – not something we have to obey completely.  Then I wondered why I got the same from my kids.  We get what we sow my friends.  It starts with us modeling the truth.

The next thing Paul reminds fathers of is “do not provoke your children to anger”.  I was guilty of this one – and still am at times.  As dad’s we should not provoke our kids – we should again model obedience because scripture tells us to “bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord”.  How come we fail on that – because we first of all don’t know what the instruction is – we haven’t studied the Word enough – and then we fail to discipline consistently and correctly – we leave it to our wives to do so much of the correction.  We have big responsibility placed on us as fathers.  Don’t neglect what Paul writes here.

He goes on to tell slaves to “obey your earthly masters with fear and trembling”.  That obey word sure shows up a lot doesn’t it.  Slaves can be interpreted pretty broadly.  Many would say that employees fall into that bucket today.  There needs to be respect and obedience to the desire of the boss.  All these relationships – starting with husbands and wives – then children and parents – then slaves and masters – all these relationships are so important in living out our faith.  We can’t truly walk as Christ Followers if we don’t live right in these relationships. 

Paul then gives us teaching on how to deal with the enemy.  “Be strong in the Lord and in the strength of His might”.  Remember that our battle is  not won by our own ability but that of the Lord.  He tells us to “put on the whole armor of God….that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil”.  We have a suit of preparation that allows us to deal with the enemy.  But we have to put it on – we have to use it – and then realize that the battle is about schemes – not brute force but often about deception and lies.  We have to be ready.  We aren’t facing an army like you might think of it – this enemy consists of “rulers….authorities….cosmic powers….spiritual forces of evil”.  It is a battle of spiritual magnitude and we won’t win it if we go it alone.

Paul ends the chapter giving us our fighting orders.  He tells us that since God is in control, has already won the victory, and will lead us to overcome – we need to “take up the whole armor of God”.  What does that entail – Paul lists the pieces here:

–       “belt of truth

–       breastplate of righteousness

–       shoes for your feet….the readiness given by the gospel of peace

–       shield of faith

–       helmet of salvation

–       sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God

We have been equipped by the Father to win.  Our job is to “end keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints……opening my mouth boldly”.  God will handle the details of winning.  We need to put on the armor and then be ready to do battle.  Are you?  Do you recognize the enemy?

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